The most painful thing to feel on the earth is...
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage”~Lao Tzu
We born, we grow up, and we all die one day... but in the midst of all these the journey from birth to death is defined as life (for me it does, not sure about you guys). While living a life we come across many things, many hurdles, we all go through different facets of life, abhor someone, fall in love with someone and sometimes immensely, meet cynic people and sometimes get enamoured by someone... Some people say that life is useless, some find it interesting, some people say that life is madness, and for some people, life is magic.
Well, it can be magic only if you're the conjurer. Are you? We all have different opinions about every goddamn thing in this world, and everyone lives differently, and I'm sure when we'll be on our death bed and flashback will start, we all must be thinking about all the rights and wrongs we have done, but however, it would be just make sure that flashback is the best movie you've ever watched and if not you have the time right now to make it the best.
Well, it can be magic only if you're the conjurer. Are you? We all have different opinions about every goddamn thing in this world, and everyone lives differently, and I'm sure when we'll be on our death bed and flashback will start, we all must be thinking about all the rights and wrongs we have done, but however, it would be just make sure that flashback is the best movie you've ever watched and if not you have the time right now to make it the best.
Not only in the reel life but also in real life we all have that most painful moment we think about all the time and sometimes have some regrets as well.
So what is your most painful moment on the earth?
I don’t know about others, but if it has to happen with me, it would be loving a wrong person religiously…I don’t know, but it really horrifies me whenever I think of it, and I don’t know why.
Okay let me make you read something
I love you, I really do…I want to hold your heart in my hand and want to say that I will never treat this heart like a fragile thing, but I assure you that I’ll never break it, and if I do it I will make sure that I will take out mine to heal yours, you know why because you are way more important to me.
I might not promise you to stop you from crying, but I will make sure to become that tears whenever you feel like crying, I can’t promise to not have any dark days in your life, but I can assure you that I will be the one who brings light.
I might not promise you to stop you from crying, but I will make sure to become that tears whenever you feel like crying, I can’t promise to not have any dark days in your life, but I can assure you that I will be the one who brings light.
You must be done reading the above paragraph, now imagine two different scenarios of saying this.
1) The first one to someone whom you love and also the right one and
2) The second one to someone whom you love but not the right one.
If you have said these things to the right one, then it is very much appreciated but if you have said all these to the wrong one. My question is, would you be able to say that again to the right one with the same enthusiasm as you said it to the wrong one? Your answer would be no...And you know, what is the best thing of falling for a wrong person, whenever we fall for the wrong one we still try to think that what we might have been, even if we hate admitting it. Sometimes we think that s/he is perfect and was meant to happen to be there for forever. But all these easily get vanished just like a snapping of two fingers.
So, in that case, all you have to do is to figure out that s/he is the right one, I know most of the reader must be thinking that what is this nonsense? How would we be able to figure out that s/he is right or not? I know it is very difficult and if you get succeed in figuring out then Bravo!
But if not then I have an integral suggestion for all of us including me that keep your expectations low, you know why because whenever you have low expectations, you are less likely to feel disappointed, disregarded and also don’t abhor or blame the other person. It aids your mental health and also creates internal motivation and self-acceptance, and that is essential.
We meet people for a reason and if that person has to be the wrong one that is fine as well because this is part and parcel of life. No matter what happens, all you need to keep in mind that life goes on with or without someone. So keep that in mind and start walking towards your destination and one day you’ll reach wherever you want to.
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